Monday, March 14, 2011

MY OWN THERAPY

"FAM-RO THERAPY"
( Family Role Therapy )


 VIEW OF HUMAN NATURE

Family is the smallest unit of system in the community but it serves as the biggest part in constructing an individual as a whole. Each members of the family have a connection to each of them, and if there is one that will be lost, it will create a big effect to the members of the family, most of it to the young children in the family. " Individuals cannot be understood in isolation from one another, but rather as a part of their family, as the family is an emotional unit. Families are systems of interconnected and interdependent individuals, none of whom can be understood in isolation from the system " according to Dr. Murray Bowen.

The parents are the one who supports the needs of their children in the family. Parents also have the role to make their children a better person and productive one to the community. But if the parents failed to do their responsibility to their child/children, chances is to produce a problem to the child in terms of their emotional, mental, social or even in their physical development. Parents must know their worth in the development of their child/children to avoid those barriers to the development of their children.


 DEVELOPMENT OF MALADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR

Saturday, February 26, 2011

CASE STUDY

SECTION A. PERSONAL DATA:


Name: Josiah Luis Prudente
Age: 4yrs old
Gender: Male
Birthday: April 4, 2006
Address: Blk 1 Lot 36 Ph2 Celina Homes Camarin Caloocan City
Birthplace: Quezon City
Citizenship: Filipino
Father: ---
Mother: Maricel Prudente
Number of siblings: 0
Leaving with: Mpther, Grandmother and Uncle
Name of school: Pilgrims Development Center
Number of classmate: 5


SECTION B. JOINING PROCESS:


         As the observation is on process, the observer just let the client to play and do whatever he wants. When the observer ask the client about his interest, the client run down the things he want and he like. The client sounds not so comfortable in deliver the answers to the observer. The observer just let the child tell everything he want to say even though it is far from the observer's objectives just no to interrupt the client.

           At the end of this therapeutic procedure, it is expected to help the child to become more sociable and free to interact with his playmates and other children and most of it to the family members of the child.


SECTION C. PRESENTING PROBLEM:


       Client's problem is more observe by his grandmother, who is with the client most of the time. The grandmother says that the client is usually isolated and more enjoying playing alone. The grandmother also says that there were times when the client preferred to stay at home and just look at the window to his age mates playing outside. The grandmother tells the observer that there were also some time that the client go outside but not playing to other children and just looking to them that seems observing at them.

     Another observation is from the client's teacher. The teacher says that, the client is usually out of the group of his classmates. The client is on the corner or at his table most of the time. But there were times when the client play to some of his classmates, it maybe one or two of his classmates playing with the client but the teacher says that it is what we call "once in a blue moon" or this thing happens very rarely.

SECTION D. PSYCHOS-SOCIAL HISTORY:
TIME LINE

GENOGRAM

SOCIOGRAM: AT HOME (Who are the people who is close to the child? )

SOCIOGRAM: AT SCHOOL ( Who are your best playmates? )

PERSONALITY DYNAMIC FOR SELFMASTERY:
              The client describe his self as a polite, caring and lovable one. He says that he always obey all the rules and regulation of his grandmother and mother. He also like playing alone because according to the client, his playmates is always teasing him in his choice of games. He usually play dolls and ball but his playmates ask him to play "mataya-taya" ( running game) and "tumbang preso" which is boring game for him. The client also tells about coloring books, he says that coloring books is his talent and he is very good in it. 


PERSONALITY DYNAMIC FOR RELATIONSHIP:
              The client view his relationship at home as a more interactive than at school. The client can expressed himself to his mother and uncle but more to his grandmother. The client is more expressive and more comfortable to play when his at home. At school, the client is quite isolated to his classmates. He usually stays at his chair, sitting or playing alone. The client may play with his classmates but not all the time. The client's relationship to his peers or playmates is quite bad. Because he is preferred more in playing alone than with them.The client also says that he is more comfortable when he is talking to adults, it is because he feels that adults understand him than his playmates. Another reason is, he is the only child at home that's why he got used to talk to adults. 


PERSONALITY DYNAMIC FOR ACTION:
             At home, the client plays toy dolls and cars. He says some scripts and imagine that the toys are real moving and talking objects. He move the different parts of his toys and move it to different angles. The client uses different scenario wherein his toys are the characters. He gives different names to his toys but forget it and give it another name again. The client is very good in thinking ideas to in playing, the client is also good in choosing words and delivering it in any tones in playing.


             At school, when the client arrive at the school, he just sit in his chair, open his bag and look for his coloring book and place it to his desk. The client will color some of the drawings on the coloring book while waiting for his teacher. When the client's teacher arrive, he will put his coloring book inside his bag and sit quietly while looking to his teacher that seems waiting for his teacher to talk. Whatever the teacher will say, the client will follow it. The client is not easily destructed in  doing the activities. After the class, the client will wait for his grandmother inside the classroom to fetch him up.




SECTION E. THEORETICAL FRAMEWORK




 The maladaptive behavior that is being diagnose to the client is the isolation of his self to other children. This problem can be discuss in the " Attachment Theory " by John Bowlby. According to this theory,John Bowlby used the term "attachment" to describe the affective bond that develops between an infant and a primary caregiver. He believed that the "attachment behavioral system" was one of four behavioral systems that are innate and evolutionarily function to assure survival of the species. The quality of attachment evolves over time as the infant interacts with his/her caregivers. The type of attachment, or attachment status of the infant toward the caregiver is partly determined by the interaction between the two and partly by the state-of-mind of attachment (vis a vis their own attachment figures) of the caregiver. Because the client is the only child at home and he is usually attach to his grandmother, that provokes him to become fond of socializing to adults than his age mates.


          Another factor of the arising the maladaptive behavior of the client is the BULLYING. It provokes the client to isolate his self to his playmates and preferred to play alone. Bullying is a real life thing. Everyone is prone to it, but there were some who are not used to it and lead to an  emotional and behavioral problem of an individual. There were several kinds of bullying but all of them will have an effect to the bully. 


                  


SECTION F. PROGNOSIS
             As the observation process is on, the observant found some behavior to the client that is not usually seen to other children, though it may not called as real problem but just  an unfamiliar behavior that occurs to the client, most of the time in playing. The client preferred more to be alone in doing different activities. This behavior is not alarming and can be easily change to more socialite one. There were also good attitudes that the observant see in the personality of the client base on how and what the child tells to the observant. The observer can say that the client is not annoying even he is talkative, according also to the answers of the grandparent and teacher of the client during the interview. The child is fond of adults. It is because the client can express more his self when he is with them. The client also feels that his playmates cannot understand his feelings and ideas.   




SECTION G. THERAPEUTIC PLAN


KNOWLEDGE BUILDING
              At the end of 5 days therapeutic process, the client is expected to build the following knowledge:


                 1. To identify the importance of having friends
                 2. To recognize the presence of playmates
                 3. To understand the differences of others


SKILLS BUILDING
              At the end of 5 days therapeutic process, the client is expected to build the following skills:


                 1. To listen when someone is talking
                 2. To accept the idea of others
                 3. To do activities and play with playmates 


ATTITUDE BUILDING
              At the end of 5 days therapeutic process, the client is expected to build the following attitude:


                 1. To value the feelings of others
                 2. To enjoy the company of playmates
                 3. To become considerate and generous in
                    different games






SECTION H. THERAPEUTIC INTERVENTIONS



OBJECTIVES


KNOWLEDGE
      BUILDING:




1.To identify the importance of having friends



2.To recognize the presence of playmates




3.To understand the differences of others








SKILLS BUILDING:


1.To listen when someone is talking



2.To accept the idea of others











3.To do activities and play with playmates







ATTITUDE
    BUILDING:



1.To value the feelings of others



2.To enjoy the company of playmates




3.To become considerate and generous in different games.







ACTIVITIES






- Reading a short story, entitled "Best Friend".



- Asking the client about the things he likes towards his most likely playmates.



- Asking the client the things he don't like towards his playmates.Explaining to the client that everyone have differences.









- Reading a short story entitled, "Si Lolo Leon".


- Asking the client what are the conflicts that occur most of the time when he is playing with his playmates. Explaining to the client that accepting ideas of others is a good behavior of an individual.







- Ask the names of his most likely friends. Go outside together with the client and look for the playmates that the client run down. Ask the children together with the client play.







- Reading a short story, entitled "Dalawang Bibe"


- Ask the client to go outside and look for the playmates that played together yesterday.



- Ask the client to play different games together with his most likely playmates.

SCHEDULE



MARCH 12 2011

  9:00 AM


  9:30 AM




  9:45 AM
     TO
   10:25 AM




 MARCH 13 2011

 9:00 AM


 9:30 AM








 10:00 AM
    TO
  10:15 AM


 MARCH 13 TO
 MARCH 14 2011

 9:00 AM


 9:30 AM



 10:00 AM
    TO
   11:30 AM












SECTION I. THERAPEUTIC PROCESS

 OBJECTIVE




KNOWLEDGE
      BUILDING:



1.To identify the importance of having friends



2.To recognize the presence of playmates




3.To understand the differences of others






SKILLS BUILDING:


1.To listen when someone is talking




2.To accept the idea of others











3.To do activities and play with playmates







ATTITUDE
    BUILDING:


1.To value the feelings of others



2.To enjoy the company of playmates




3.To become considerate and generous in different games.





 THERAPEUTIC
INTERVENTION






- Reading a short story entitled "Best Friend"




- Asking the client about the things he likes towards his most likely playmates.



- Asking the client the things he doesn't like towards his playmates. Explaining to the client that everyone have differences.






- Reading a short story entitled, "Si Lolo Leon".




- Asking the client what are the conflicts that occur most of the time when he is playing with his playmates. Explaining to the client that accepting others idea is a good behavior of an individual. 






- Ask the names of his most likely friends. Go outside together with the client and look for playmates that the client run down. Ask the children to play together with the client.




- Reading a short story entitled, "Dalawang Bibe"



- Ask the client to go outside and look for the playmates that played together yesterday. 


- Ask the client to play different games together with his most likely playmates.

SCHEDULE







 9:00 AM




 9:30 AM





9:45 AM
  TO
 10:25 AM






 9:00 AM




9:30 AM









 10:00 AM
   TO
  10:15 AM







 9:00 AM




 9:30 AM




 10:00 AM
  TO
 11:30 AM






 PROGRESS







 The client now know the importance of having friends.


 The client now recognize the children who the similarities to him.





 The client now accept the fact that every individuals have differences.









 The client reflect to the story and realize that listening is a must when someone is talking.



 The client understand the feelings and accept the ideas and suggestions of his playmates.








 The client can now play with his playmates.








 The client now learn to value the feelings of his playmates.



 The client enjoy the company of his playmates and do different activities together.




 The client now give way to the suggestions of his playmates. The client let his playmates to decide whatever the games or activities they want to play or do.


SECTION J. THERAPEUTIC RESULTS


              Base on the information gathered, the therapeutic intervention is successfully followed and the objectives are achieved by the client.The client now is no longer isolated to his playmates. The client now value the presence of his playmates and more active in activities with them. The client also learn to accept the differences and ideas of his playmates.

          At school, the teacher observe that after the therapeutic procedure, the client become more sociable. During the group activities, the child join the group of pupils and do it with them. 

             At home, the client is no longer looking at the window outside their home. The client now go outside and play with his playmates.

              The client  becomes more sociable and active playing with other children and enjoying their company.

      
SECTION K.


SUMMARY


      The client is a 4 yrs old boy who's parents are separated since his in the womb of his mother. He lives with his grandmother, mother and an uncle. He is the only child at home that's why he is more close to adults than his age mates. He use to play alone than with playmates. He enjoys doing activities by his own. 

      The client is said to be a caring, polite and lovable one. He loves coloring. He usually plays doll because of that his playmates tease him. That's another reason of his being isolated towards his playmates. 

     The client's teacher also observe his behavior towards his classmates and can't do anything about it.

      Through the therapeutic process, the behavior of my client change day-by-day. And when the procedure ended, being more sociable, friendly and active child seen to my client. That proves that the therapeutic procedure is effective to the client.          


RECOMMENDATION


       The observer recommended the family to encourage the child to play with other playmates. Also let the child to play outside or inside their home to maintain its behavior of being sociable. 





CONCLUSION


       From the data gathered, I conclude that every individual have difference that sometimes others misunderstood it and create a conflict between them. It is important that everyone have the sense of accepting this differences to avoid conflicts.


        The maladaptive behavior that arise to the client is an effect of misunderstanding his ideas by his playmates. This provoke him to isolate his self to them. Another reason of being attach of the client to adults than his age mates is because of their home setting.
  


SECTION L. IMPLICATION TO EDUCATION AND ASSESSMENT



     Teachers play an important role in fostering the intellectual and social development of children during their formative years. The education that students acquire is key to determining the future of those students. Whether in elementary or high schools or in private or public schools, teachers provide the tools and the environment for their students to develop into responsible adults.

         Teachers act as facilitators or coaches, using classroom presentations or individual instruction to help students learn and apply concepts in subjects such as science, mathematics, and English. They plan, evaluate, and assign lessons; prepare, administer, and grade tests; listen to oral presentations; and maintain classroom discipline. Teachers observe and evaluate a student's performance and potential. They are increasingly asked to use new assessment methods. For example, teachers may examine a portfolio of a student's artwork or writing in order to judge the student's overall progress. They then can provide additional assistance in areas in which the student needs help. Teachers also grade papers, prepare report cards, and meet with parents and school staff to discuss a student's academic progress or personal problems.

           Though parents have lots of expectations, teachers must not take all the responsibility too seriously. The teacher must enjoy the company of her pupils and cope up to them so that it will be easier for her to identify their needs according to their weaknesses and strength. 

              Teachers must also have the sense of creativity. Children are all fond of colorful and creative things, if the teacher have lots of creative ideas, she can have all the attention of her pupils.

                In doing activities, the teacher should always use different strategies of encouraging each and every students to participate in class activities. The Teacher must have a good communication skill to push the students to become active in participating. 

                All educators have their own strategy in giving a good educational environment to their pupils. But the most important thing that is not being ignored are the skills and learnings that their pupils need. Knowing them is the best thing to do. Then the strategies and techniques in teaching follows through the process. The teacher must give her full effort and attention to achieve these things. The teacher must be brave enough to try new things to know which is more appropriate and effective to her teaching. 

                It might be difficult responsibility for teachers, but if they will see the positive effects in their pupils, it will lead them to the feeling of satisfaction and success in terms of their profession. 


Sunday, February 20, 2011

LEARNING QUESTIONS

 LEARNING QUESTIONS:

1. Why is it important to connect the past experiences to the present behavior of an individual?

2. How can you handle your pupil compromising you about his problem in his/her parents?

3. You diagnose that one of your pupil needs some medical support and you need to tell it to his/her parents, what approach are you going to do?

4. Do you think as a teacher, helping to solve the family problem of your pupil is one of your responsibility to his/her behavioral problem?

5. How can you explain to those parents that cannot accept that their child is encountering some sorts of problem and need some medical support?